Parent Resources on Disability Awareness and Acceptance
Judy Heumann experienced discrimination from the age of five. A wheelchair user who contracted polio as a baby, she was denied the right to attend school because she was considered a “fire hazard.” Judy heard this phrase again and again as she grew up, from ticket sellers at movie theaters to the NYC Board of Education, who tried (but failed) to keep her from teaching. Judy’s parents played an integral role in raising her to fight for her rights, and she continued to use her voice and passion to advocate for disability rights. Her work led to the expansion and implementation of Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act, the Americans with Disabilities Act, and so much more.
We were incredibly grateful for the opportunity to sit down and chat with Judy before her passing in March 2023. Among our many takeaways, one big one is the importance of raising our kids to be strong advocates. We’ve put together a list of books, TED Talks, and online resources as a tribute to her, and we recommend that you start with her impactful work:
- her memoir, Being Heumann: An Unrepentant Memoir of a Disability Rights Activist
- Netflix’s excellent documentary, Crip Camp: A Disability Revolution
- Judy’s YouTube channel of interviews important voices in disability rights
- The Heumann Perspective on Facebook, which has frequently updated news and information
Highlights from our chat with Judy Heumann
Judy, on her advocacy work leading to the eventual 1977 signing of Section 504 regulations:
“We weren’t a huge group but we were a loud group and we were everywhere.”
On the importance of self-agency:
"Try to make sure that your kids are getting to exercise choices that your non-disabled kids are getting to exercise. If you’re hiring someone through the Regional Center, whether it’s at home or in school, it’s very important that the child be engaged in decision-making as much as possible. Regardless of the kind of disability they have, it’s important to engage them. What colors do they like? What foods do they like?"
On being “calmly unstoppable” and sharing stories:
“I made a fuss for everybody; it wasn’t always fun, but I’ve got so many stories. Knowing the multiplicity of stories that you have and sharing those stories with your family and friends — not only what the problems were, but what you’ve been doing to solve them — allows people to see that they’re not alone."
Resources for Parent Advocacy
Books
- Disability Visibility: First-Person Stories from the Twenty-First Century, edited by Alice Wong (founder of the Disability Visibility Project), was released for the 30th anniversary of the ADA. This highly anticipated book contains a collection of essays from leading voices in modern disability culture.
- A Disability History of the United States by historian and disability scholar Kim E. Nielsen is a fascinating and at times horrifying account of disability in American history, beginning in 1492.
TED Talks
- Judy’s 2016 TED Talk, “Our Fight for Disability Rights — and Why We’re Not Done Yet,” has more than 1.1 million views and has been translated into 17 languages. Judy speaks about her childhood, how her parents advocated for her, and how to be a disruptor.
- In “I Got 99 Problems…Palsy Is Just One,” Maysoon Zayid, one of the first female Muslim comedians (who also has cerebral palsy), gives a hilarious and moving talk advocating for better representation in media for those with disabilities.
- “I’m Not Your Inspiration, Thank You Very Much” by Stella Young discusses “inspiration porn” and how people expect folks with disabilities to inspire others.
- In "My Philosophy for a Happy Life," Sam Barns, who was diagnosed with Progeria at the age of explains his life philosophy, including the power of following your dreams and surrounding yourself with people who support and love you.
- "Under the Table - The Importance of Presuming Competence." Shelley Moore, an inclusive consultant, uses humor and personal stories to illustrate how all students are capable contributors in their communities!
- "Disabling Segregation." Disability rights advocate Dan Habib shares the personal story of his family's fight to ensure an inclusive education for his son, who was born with cerebral palsy. Dan made the Emmy-nominated documentary, Including Samuel, which chronicles his family’s efforts to include Samuel in every facet of their lives, and Who Cares About Kelsey? — which documents the lives of students with emotional/behavioral challenges.
- "Disabling Ableism: The Modern Pathway to Inclusion." Alycia Anderson discusses her experiences growing up with a disability, and how her parents helped her challenge ableism.
Other online resources
- We All Belong is a documentary film exploring the issues of belonging and diversity in our classrooms. Profiles of real parents highlight their shared dreams and fears. Listen as children, parents, and professionals discuss the disadvantages of a non-inclusive learning environment.
- "A hair-dryer kid in a toaster-brained world." On the blog, Mom-Not Otherwise Specified, Mary writes about her experiences parenting a child with autism. Check out this article about a visit to her son’s class, and her reflections years later.
Online advocacy resources
➢ Crip Camp: The Official Virtual Experience
This excellent companion website to the Netflix documentary has links to webinars that will take place all summer from some of the most noted disability advocates, discussing everything from sex to work to celebrating the ADA’s 30th anniversary. Crip Camp’s Facebook Page is another excellent resource.
➢ Disability Visibility Project
The Disability Visibility project hosts and amplifies the stories of disabled people through their tweets, podcast episodes, radio stories, audio clips, images, and blog posts. Their biweekly podcast explores disability politics, culture, and media.
➢ ASAN: Autistic Self-Advocacy Network
ASAN is an organization whose disability advocacy focuses on people with autism. They advocate for better public policy, developing autistic cultural activities, and offer leadership training for autistic advocates.
➢ The Arc
The Arc supports the rights of people with disabilities, including advocating for full inclusion and participation in their communities. Their work focuses on everything from civil rights to education, employment, health care, housing, and grassroots advocacy. Their local chapter can be found here.
➢ ADAPT
This national grassroots community organizes disability rights activists to engage in nonviolent direct action, including civil disobedience, to ensure that people with disabilities can live in freedom. Follow their Facebook page here.
➢ One Out of Five: Disability History and Pride
This resource centers the voices of people with disabilities and provides lessons and resources that “celebrate the history and identities within this large and diverse community”. Parents can find five lesson plans, tons of extra resources, and a book guide listing 85 books of fiction, nonfiction, anthologies, poetry, and more.
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