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How do I help my child reduce dependence on an aide?


Published: Jun. 9, 2026Updated: Jun. 9, 2026

Many kids with extensive support needs will need a paraprofessional to be included in a general education classroom. On the other hand, one common concern is increased dependence on an aide. Here are some ideas to reduce dependence on an aide:

  • Ask for an independence plan with specific times during the day when the aide might fade support. This could be developed using an assessment (often called a SCIA).
  • Ask about the aide’s training in behavior, instruction, etc. Inclusive Schooling provides a wonderful remote training program for paraprofessionals called Para-bytes, which you can request your school to fund.
  • What kind of aide does your child have? Do they have a behavioral aide trained in behavior intervention when the child’s behavioral issue is primarily about communication? An aide trained in AAC use might be more appropriate.
  • Could your child do well in a general education classroom with a shared aide? Many schools designated as model inclusion schools use a paraprofessional model that assigns the aide to the teacher, not the student — your child would still have adult support, but it may come from multiple adults during the day.
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