If I have two children with IEPs, should I combine IEP meetings?
Published: Nov. 12, 2025Updated: Nov. 12, 2025
If you have multiple children with IEPs, the school might encourage you to combine your children's IEP meetings an in effort to save time. However, Non-Attorney Education Advocate Lisa Carey cautions that you should not consent to a combined meeting. Lisa says she wouldn’t even consent to schedule separate meetings on the same day. IEPs are often a draining process, so you might end up agreeing to things you didn’t plan to because you're tired and want to be done. It's also hard to keep the children separate.
For more tips on preparing for an upcoming IEP meeting, see our ultimate IEP prep checklist.
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